150 This or That Questions for Any Group

This or that questions are the fastest party game there is: two options, no explanation, pick one and move on. They work in a group chat, around a dinner table, or in the first five minutes of a meeting where nobody knows each other yet. Below are 150 of them, grouped by who you are playing with, so you can jump straight to the set that fits the room.

Funny This or That Questions

1. Sneeze glitter or burp bubbles?
2. Permanent bedhead or permanent sunburn?
3. Talking pet or silent baby?
4. Always ten minutes early or ten minutes late?
5. Fingers as long as legs or legs as short as fingers?
6. Live in a treehouse or a cave?
7. Bark instead of laughing or hiccup instead of blinking?
8. Shoes on the wrong feet forever or a winter coat in summer forever?
9. Smell like garlic or sound like a kazoo?
10. Have a tail or have wings that do not work?
11. Slide everywhere or bounce everywhere?
12. Sweat maple syrup or cry lemonade?
13. Famous for falling over or unknown forever?
14. Only whisper or only shout?
15. Have a comb-over or a unibrow?
16. Get lost every day or be late every day?
17. Clown shoes or a clown wig?
18. Sing every sentence or rhyme every sentence?
19. Covered in fur or covered in scales?
20. Never use a fork or never use a cup?
21. Hiccups for a year or an itch you cannot reach for a year?
22. Trip over weekly or spill coffee daily?
23. A laugh like a donkey or a sneeze like a foghorn?
24. A roommate who snores or one who sleepwalks?
25. Photographed only mid-blink or only mid-sneeze?

This or That Questions for Couples

26. Night in or night out?
27. Big wedding or tiny wedding?
28. Handwritten letter or long voice note?
29. Cook together or order in?
30. Beach vacation or city break?
31. Same taste in music or same taste in movies?
32. Morning person or night owl?
33. Surprise gift or planned gift?
34. Road trip or flight?
35. Live in the countryside or the city?
36. Matching outfits or matching tattoos?
37. Say it now or write it down?
38. Split everything or take turns paying?
39. Dogs or cats?
40. Early nights or late talks?
41. Plan the whole trip or book nothing?
42. Rewatch a favorite or start something new?
43. Dance badly together or sit it out together?
44. Anniversary dinner or anniversary trip?
45. Tell each other everything or keep small surprises?

This or That Questions for Adults

46. Rent forever or buy a fixer-upper?
47. Bigger salary or shorter commute?
48. Four-day week or work from home?
49. Pay off debt or build savings?
50. Host the dinner or attend it?
51. Early retirement or a job you love?
52. Neat house or full fridge?
53. Cancel plans or go anyway?
54. Doctor's appointment or dentist's?
55. Move abroad or stay put?
56. One long vacation or four short ones?
57. Learn to drive again or never drive?
58. Lend money or lend your car?
59. Live near family or far from them?
60. Fix it yourself or pay someone?
61. Wake at five or sleep till noon?
62. Big yard or big kitchen?
63. Quiet neighbors or generous ones?

This or That Questions for Work

64. Email or call?
65. Open plan or private office?
66. Meeting or long thread?
67. Work alone or on a team?
68. Standing desk or big chair?
69. Coffee machine or kettle?
70. Early shift or late shift?
71. A boss who never checks in or one who checks in daily?
72. Casual dress or smart dress?
73. Office snacks or office plants?
74. Camera on or camera off?
75. Feedback in writing or in person?
76. Busy season or slow season?
77. Office birthday cake or an extra day off?
78. Desk by the window or by the door?
79. Team lunch or leave on time?
80. Learn a new tool or master an old one?
81. A message or a tap on the shoulder?

This or That Questions for Teens

82. Group chat or one to one?
83. Post it or keep it in drafts?
84. School trip or free period?
85. Late homework or early alarm?
86. Front row or back row?
87. Big friend group or two close friends?
88. Sports team or school play?
89. Sleepover or day out?
90. Phone on loud or phone on silent?
91. Read the book or watch the movie?
92. Exams or presentations?
93. New sneakers or new headphones?
94. Summer job or summer off?
95. Walk to school or get a ride?
96. Learn an instrument or learn a language?

Flirty This or That Questions

97. First-date coffee or first-date walk?
98. Text first or wait?
99. Compliment out loud or in a note?
100. Slow dance or long conversation?
101. Hold hands or hold eye contact?
102. Movie night or midnight drive?
103. Cook for them or be cooked for?
104. Be pursued or do the pursuing?
105. Flowers or a playlist?
106. Say it too early or too late?
107. Dinner out or a picnic?
108. Old-fashioned romance or straight talking?

This or That Questions for Friends

109. Tell them the truth or spare their feelings?
110. Group vacation or solo trip?
111. Call every week or see them twice a year?
112. Borrow clothes or lend them?
113. Loud night out or long night in?
114. Give advice or just listen?
115. Same job or same neighborhood?
116. Plan it or wing it?
117. Split the bill evenly or pay for what you had?
118. Old friend or new friend?
119. Be the driver or be the passenger?
120. Say sorry first or wait it out?

Food This or That Questions

121. Coffee or tea?
122. Sweet or savory?
123. Pizza or pasta?
124. Breakfast or dinner?
125. Chocolate or chips?
126. Ice cream or cake?
127. Spicy or mild?
128. Cheese or dessert?
129. Soup or salad?
130. Burger or sandwich?
131. Soda or water?
132. Fruit or bread?
133. Home cooking or takeout?
134. Rice or potatoes?
135. Cook or wash up?

Hard This or That Questions

136. Money or time?
137. Truth or peace?
138. Be understood or be admired?
139. Forgive or forget?
140. Know the future or change the past?
141. Be right or be kind?
142. Freedom or security?
143. Start over or carry on?
144. Talent or hard work?
145. Be alone or be misunderstood?
146. Long life or full life?
147. Regret trying or regret not trying?
148. Lose a memory or lose a skill?
149. Be feared or be forgotten?
150. Choose for yourself or have it chosen well?

How to Play This or That

There are no rules worth writing down, which is why the this or that game travels so well. One person reads a pair out loud, everyone answers at the same time, and you move on. No scoring, no turns, no waiting.

Two variations are worth knowing. Play it fast and give everyone three seconds to answer, which turns it into a reflex game and gets funnier as people stop thinking. Or play it slow and make each person explain one answer per round, which turns it into a conversation and works better with people you already know.

If you want longer dilemmas instead of quick picks, the same idea stretched out becomes a different game entirely.

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